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How does it work?

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How does it work?
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Started this discussion. Last reply by mommytome Jul. 19, 2009.

 

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Ive seen the weight thing and i think it is discrimination i think if the ips dont mind and you are healthy it shouldn't matter but people are always trying to judge for one thing or another
March 1
There is a difference between being a skinny barbie doll and being healthy. I'd like to point out too, that healthy does not always mean fit and trim, and especially not skinny. I know big boned people that eat healthy and stay active but are not s…
November 9, 2009
Its not at all discrimination. If a woman's BMI is too high they are more likely not to get pregnant during a transfer cycle. This is why clinics insist woman's BMI's are between certain limits. Clinics and agencies are trying to optimize the succe…
September 20, 2009
Best of luck to you in your journey.... :)
August 18, 2009
Thats terrible. Im sorry they put you through that.
August 17, 2009
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Well my IP's were phoneys. After waiting for ever for them to contact me and only having limited email convo's , I told them that they had 48 to contact me or i would assume that they were no longer interested. They have since not contacted me or an…
August 16, 2009
If it is twins, then it maybe necessary to have a c-section so it is important to establish that in advance. Lots plan an induction - especially if you live far away from the IPs. But this is something you guys should talk about in advance of cyclin…
August 14, 2009
devinebydesign1977 and Piper Watson are now friends
August 7, 2009
I think they are just confused and want to be there for the birth of their baby. I believe they think that an induction must include a c-section. Let them know that you can do an induction up to 39 weeks (earliest) and it can be vaginal. There is no…
August 4, 2009
My previous IP's and I worked with a clinic IN Indiana....the transfer never occured for other reasons..however everything up to it had and it all took place in Indiana..I live in MO so was fine to deliver here. But for what it is worth..that was ne…
July 19, 2009
ok so where would I go to do the IVF treatments and such? Thats where i get confused a lot.
July 19, 2009
Okay, so before you take my word to total heart, the info on Indiana that it's not illegal to be a surrogate but contracts are null and void. You would be best served by asking a lawyer but I recommend Hilary Neiman, she is nice, down to earth. New…
July 18, 2009
i Live in Indiana and they live in new York. Which I have seen that both state dont recognize the contracts but that is all that it says.
July 18, 2009
Ditto Sarah. Depending on the state, you may have to deliver outside of either state in a more surrogacy friendly state.
July 17, 2009
It honestly depends on the state. Some states flat out thing surrogacy is illegal, you can not deliver there nor have the contract reconized in any courts. Some other states have where paid surrogacy is illegal and you could deliver there if comp po…
July 17, 2009
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I was wondering how does it work when the IP's and the surrogate both live in states that dont accept the surrogate contract. Do you just go to another state to do the contract or do one anyways and take a chance. Im not sure how this works. Anyone…
July 17, 2009

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Well i am on my first journey as a surrogate. I have accepted an offer from a very nice couple in Long Island New York. I am trying to figure all this out. Have lots of questions.

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Well my IP's were phoneys. After waiting for ever for them to contact me and only having limited email convo's , I told them that they had 48 to contact me or i would assume that they were no longer interested. They have since not contacted me or anything. She claimed that they were all sick and that they were going on vacation when I first met them. And was supposed to call me right after they got back. But since i have heard nothing, i have to move on with my life. I guess it was not meant to… Continue

Posted on August 16, 2009 at 12:34pm — 3 Comments

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Today I tell all my family of my decision.

Today i will be telling all of my family about my decision to accept an offer to become a surrogate. The family has offered me a very nice deal, and I get to do something That I have always wanted to do, give another family the gift of life.
I don't know the technicalities of how this works but they have made an offer of $25,000 plus medical and travel expenses. They are extremely nice people and i feel very connected to them already. I am so excited that i get to do something this important for… Continue

Posted on July 3, 2009 at 1:21pm — 6 Comments

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At 4:51pm on July 4, 2009, Angela Smith said…
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