Robyn's Page

I thought it might be time to update my profile. Nine months single now and I'm settling in to a new routine. It was an adjustment to say the least but I can truly say we are much better people and parents now that we are living separately. The kids are happier and so are we.

I put my journey as a surrogate on hold that entire time. I fell out of touch with both sets of IPs I was communicating with at the time. I needed *and took* the time to focus on myself and my family. But now, I'm… Continue

Well, after talking with numerous IPs, from all parts of the country and everyone having a different reason for finding a surrogate, I've matched with a set of IFs in NJ. I have to say it... they are great! I've read this line over and over on other people's blogs about being matched with "the perfect" couple and just thought they were so lucky. And now I'm the lucky one! So far, we've spent a good amount of time on the phone and every time it just felt so right.

Their lawyer is reviewing my in… Continue

multiple questions, multiple answers, multiple IPs, multiple carriers, multiple eggs, multiple babies!

I'm now in the talking stage with two separate families about expanding via surrogacy. One is a very good friend whom I've grown to know more and more over the last few months. The other is a single gay male in LA looking for a sibling for his daughter, also born via surrogacy. I feel like I want to rush everything with both of them but I *know* that is the absolute wrong way to handle things. I'm just giddy with anticipation since this is my first journey. Things will all work out as it's meant… Continue

It seems my IFs have found a childhood friend and neighbor to carry their first baby for them. I wish them the best and we will still keep in touch should the situation change in the next few months. They also said that they want 3-4 kids so I could be eligible should the new surro not want to do it all over again. I'm okay with that. I'm all about trying to save the IPs money where and when I can and I can't compete with right next door, can I? :)

So, my search will go on and what is meant to… Continue