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Well as you guys know we have had alot of trouble with the surrogate here in illinois. We have never recieved confirmation that she was pregnant, but did recieve a letter she faxed to my atty on the 28th. It reads:

RE: St**** Vall****
DOB: 10/**/**
To whom it may concern:
St**** Vall**** has requested I send documentation regarding the outcome of her obstretrical visit at my office on June 22, 2009. St**** Vall**** was diagnosed with a fetal demise at her visit on June 22,2009.

This is crap. We called to confirm that it actually came from the docs office and they said they can't confirm it. She finially let us know she was pregnant...16 weeks into the pregnancy, and let a week lapse between our baby dying and her letting us know ANYTHING.

How hateful do you really have to be to do this to an entire family?

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What kind of background check did you do? You state that next time you will have your Attorney oversee the contract. These two things are very important. Like I said in a previous post I typed her name into google and the first few items pulled up are stories of her trying to kill her children and having them removed from her custody. Let this be a lesson to IP's out there research,psych exam,medical testing,a good attorney,and get to know your SM do not rush into Journey. Good luck to you I hope you are able to find a resolution.

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i have to agree...we are not planning on missing any of the scans or important apts.

but as already known,its so easy to get a pic via google images or any baby site and remove the origonal info,ive seen it done on another site,the ips were none the wiser till surrogate says at 21wks that baby had died..ips rushed to the hospital they thought she was at,having got last min plane tickets,only to find out the hospital never hear of the surrogate

its sad

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Oh that so breaks my heart.

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Actually I was supposed to go to the first scan, but Stacey uninvited us and since we still did not know what doc she had choosen we could not show up any-way.

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She was good with us going to all the appointments, scans and wanted us there for the birth. We thought she uninvited us cuz she wasn't really pregnant.

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Sheesh. This is horrid.

*sigh* You have my deepest sympathies.

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I'm so sorry for all you've been through. IF it's any consolation, my gut tells me she wasn't even pregnant. Of course I could be wrong. Either way it's a bad situation.

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are you still looking for a surro.

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omg i am so sorry to hear that :( wow that is crazy.

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My name is Caitlin and I want to help people. I love animals and I have a small dog and cat. I have always wanted to help people but never knew how and I believe this would be a great way. I am in college but will graduate soon and my Fiancee has joined the army. We are to be married 3-26-10. I have NEVER had an std and I have a clear bill of health (will see a doctor if need be) I have also never drank nor smoked nor tried drugs of any kind. I simply wish to give someone joy when others cant. I live in Mississippi and I am 18 years old. The only money I would need is to cover the doctor fees, food cravings, and any compensation for gas if i drove myself to see you. I do not want to charge someone for a gift of life because it is unfair when it should be free yet I do understand the need for baby related fees (food and doctor bills) to be paid by the future parents. My email is caitlinnicolegiles@yahoo.com and I would like to help anyway I can.

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