Surro finially contacted us...BAD BAD BAD

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Permalink Reply by Krysten Reed on July 2, 2009 at 4:43pm

Oh my Goodnesss!!! How Horrible!! So she's pregnant? Is it Gs or Ts?
I cant believe that she would do that, keep you hanging and why lie about it??
Sorry to hear your having a rough time!
Hope all goes well for you and your family..

Krysten

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Permalink Reply by Stacey and Buffy on July 2, 2009 at 4:48pm

She was our Traditional Surrogate. I lost my husbands only child almost 4 years ago, and now this. Brian thinks the world is targeting him. He is such a wonderful man. I would day dream about the day I got to witness the miracle of birth, and see him hold his baby for the first time.

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Permalink Reply by Stacey and Buffy on July 2, 2009 at 4:49pm

It destroys me that she proves she is pregnant by letting us know he/she or they are dead.

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Permalink Reply by 4 chayrez on July 2, 2009 at 4:55pm

Okay I am so confused. Your former TS is pregnant with YOUR DH's baby but has conveyed to you that the baby died but you know she is really pregnant?
Correct me if I got it all wrong. Either way hugs to you because that is why trust, understanding, friendship, and respect are sp important in any relationship but especially a TS relationship.

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Permalink Reply by jodi on July 2, 2009 at 6:08pm

Is this whom you're referring to? I recognized the bit about having her children taken away, and remember watching this unravel on SMO. A quick google search of her name pulls up all kinds of things, you say you did a background check?
http://www.surromomsonline.com/support/showthread.php?t=136430

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Permalink Reply by 4 chayrez on July 2, 2009 at 7:15pm

Yeah I am pretty sure thats her. I had looked as well and it seems like the same TS. Sad situation.

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Permalink Reply by Dreams Do Come True on July 3, 2009 at 6:13am

this is disgraceful,i remember seeing the warnings against her last year and im sure ive seen some where this year as well.
im so sorry for your loss and hope in time your hurt will heal

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Permalink Reply by Alison on July 2, 2009 at 7:50pm

It's her. I hope PIPs from this site check out that thread on SMO and remember this woman's name. She is a terrible person.

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Permalink Reply by 4 chayrez on July 2, 2009 at 8:34pm

Yes I agree. She has serious mental issues and doesnt need to be creating anymore children.

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Permalink Reply by Dawn on July 3, 2009 at 4:51pm

There's still a picture of her on boxdogbuddies.com, but it's really small. I'm guessing that's her anyway (found it through the SMO posting).

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Permalink Reply by Stacey and Buffy on July 2, 2009 at 9:13pm

What do I wish I had seen or known? There were subtle red flags. She adamently did not want to go through an agancy. Stated that it had ruined a relationship with her IP's and the deal fell through. I should have persued that. She came for the insems and was very cozy with my kids who were less than receptive...Kids have that instinct. She stayed at our house with the second round of insems, and did not take a bath or shower for three and a half days. You could smell the nasty semen/hoo-haa thing. Which of course my kids also mentioned. She occupied the couch the entire time. She offered to take over my insurance since we have the same first name...so the whole thing was covered and my name would go on the birth cert, I declined. She lost her keys to her car when she got ready to leave on the last visit. She stayed another night and waited for someone to Fed Ex to deliver keys from a friend. I thought it was curious that she never called anyone to arrange for daycare for the four kids of hersor even to talk to the kids or hubby. She got up to shower (desperate need of one again) I picked up the trash accumulating around the couch to straighten up, picked up her purse to set it aside and the keys were right there on top. We didn't do another insem after that...We found excuses not to. We had only done one real one that month. Of course thats the month she announced she was pregnant. She was getting nervous cuz we wern't going to re-hire her for another contract despite her all but begging us to. Two days before she announced her condition we started to get a heads up as to who she really was. She announced she was pregnant, but thought that all she had to do was say that she was and the money would start flowing. She even demanded to be paid. It was a nightmare.

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Permalink Reply by Alison on July 2, 2009 at 9:21pm

Well, I am against using an agency as well BUT only because the one my FIPs and I used robbed them of a couple grand and took off. :( I know how to do this indy, it seems easier actually and less time consuming, so I prefer that now vs. an agency.

But with that said, this woman is mentally ill. I am glad you know now vs. even further on down the road.. still, I wish she hadn't gotten to you. :(

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